I began to draw an invisible boundary between myself and other people. No matter who I was dealing with. I maintained a set distance, carefully monitoring the person’s attitude so that they wouldn’t get any closer. I didn’t easily swallow what other people told me. My only passions were books and music.
LOOK AT THE CAT
Feels unreal tht im just visiting to where my child hood was, looking around okinawa and feeling like ive never left. Nd it makes me kinda sad tht i ever left it still feels unreal tht im graduated and thought i was gunna be in japan forever.. but leave in two months. And that all the friends ive made up untill now are gone cause they moved and who knows how long itll be untill i see them again. Nd this will be my last time visiting oki for a good while, if i cant get a job..I go back to kota/tokyo and then theres this sad thought tht ill have no bestfriends and ill just be roaming and doing things bymyself and everywhere ill turn nd look will just be long lost memories just like coming back to oki..
Because lying to your kids about sex helps nobody. Telling them that sex is “only between mommies and daddies” is a lie that leads to confused, hormone charged teenagers. Telling them that sex is “only something that happens when two people love each other very much” is a lie that causes hormone charged teenagers to confuse “love” with “lust,” or “obsession.” It leads to leaps of logic like, “If I have sex with them, we must be in love.” Or worse- “If I love them, I have to have sex with them.” And how many teenage tragedies are based on that misconception?